First and foremost, we are in 2017 now and I hope you have started off very well this new year and that in everything that you propose you are very successful.
And since I want you to start the year with great success I want to share with you 5 tips to be successful in love and with your partner.
If we feel good and loved by our partner we can see the way out through many hard times that life puts us, but sometimes we do not give that importance and let routine and effort do not end up charging a great relationship. Since I do not want that to happen to you, please read these 5 points carefully:
1.Keep the physical contact alive: The physical contact is fundamental in human relations, there are studies where it has been seen that children who receive more caresses and physical contact of their parents are much happier than those who do not receive it. With this I am not referring only to sex, a couple needs hugs, walks off the hand, a small caress in the face … But of course, you have to know well and know what your partner likes, if not They like to caress their hair so do not do it even if you love to do it.
2.Spend quality time with your partner: The important thing is not the amount of time you spend together, if not the quality of it. If you work together dedicate at least a few minutes a day when you get home to talk about your doubts, fears, goals together. Leave the work aside and the worries and focus on you, turn off the mobile, the TV … and talk about your relationship only.
If everyone has a different job when you get home, after talking about your work problems, having dinner and relaxing a little you can spend some time alone just to you.
What you can also do is activities that you both like, take a walk, go to the gym, or just have breakfast in the morning together.
Try to also do new things together like going to a new restaurant, a new depot …
But most important of all is that you focus only on having a nice time with your partner. It carries a positive energy within you.
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3.Never stop communicating with your partner: The basis of a good relationship is communication. There are things that are hard to say, maybe so difficult that you dare not do. So write an email to your partner telling you how you feel, but never let go of communication. It is the most important. Look also at the non-verbal communication of your partner. There are times when more is said with non-verbal communication than with words.
Never think that because you spend a lot of time together your partner knows what you want or knows what you are thinking because it is not so, never take anything for granted. The best thing is to talk it all out as silly as you think the subject is.
4.A healthy relationship is based on giving and receiving: There are relationships in which it is always the same that gives and never receives. With this I am not saying that there has to be a 50% give and a 50% to receive, that depends on each couple, there are people with only receive 20% are already happy because it makes them happier giving than receiving. But these two points must always exist.
You have to know what is important to your partner and try to make him happy. It may be that you buy him a nut bread at the bakery on the corner, or that you tell him I love you more often if your partner has told you what is important for him to try and you will see how much you will receive in return.
Many times we think that there is only one right way to do things and it is ours, but we have to know how to listen and there are times when listening to one thinks and realizes that the other person is right. And this is not “losing” or being “weak” I would even say that it is to be even stronger because only the strong know how to recognize their mistakes.
5.Be realistic and expect in the relationship good times and bad times: All relationships have good and bad times and the important thing is not to throw the towel at the first change. There are times that it is better to take some time for yourself and to leave the discussion for the moment when we feel more relaxed. But every relationship, however good it may be, will go through bad times and we must be aware of it and be able to fight to save it.
I hope these tips keep your relationship healthy and strong and that 2017 will only bring you happiness alongside that special person.
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